Pet Play: A Conscious Experience/Temple Party w/ Major, Monique, and Peter

You are formally invited to A Conscious Play Experience: PET PLAY

About this event

This is an experiential party for the sensually adventurous. This special evening welcomes ALL and is very gender friendly.

This is an invitation to dive deeply into yourself and each other in ways you may have been afraid to do in the past. This is the party you want to come to even if you've never been to one before. We create an expansive, feeling-full environment charged with electricity, yet warmly grounded and earthy. A safe and sacred container for exploring kisses and hugs in a relaxed space. This party encourages your curiosity about taking your own sensuality to the next level. The evening is a celebration of imagination and curiosity, so you may experience as many flavors as you dare.

PET PLAY! A Conscious Play Party, a sensuously kinky event of deep intimacy and erotic exploration. In this HOT erotic play space, we’ll explore how deep we can go into our pleasure in Pet play. This will be a journey into a deep connection, kink, sensuality, erotism, and DEEP pleasure! Bring your desires, your lovers, toys, and let’s PLAY!

During this heart-centered event, Major will be facilitating activities that allow you to explore your edges around Pet Play. Expanding off of Power dynamics, this will be a playfully sxxy experience including a Best in Show Award, Human petting zoo, and partner feeding! Go as deep into this experience as you want!

Create the experience of the fantasy mind. After the opening circle and facilitation and Games, you will be set free to PLAY & explore your limits and edges around Pet Play! We welcome couples, moresomes, and solo folks! All gender expressions and sxxual identities are welcome in this space.

Communicate boundaries with your partner(s)

We ask that you have an honest conversation with any partners you have around your desires and boundaries before you arrive at the party so that you are all on the same page.

Location is shared in the confirmation email and again 24 hrs prior to the event. (near old town San Diego)

Schedule:

7:00pm - Doors open

7:45pm- Doors lock

7:45pm- Opening Circle/Facilitation

8:45pm- FREE PLAY

11:15pm- Awards & Closing Circle

11:30pm- End of The night

Please arrive with:

-Your sexy body, all your senses, and a clear and present mind.

-Play toys or specialty items.

-Bring a towel for shower and indoor pool!

-Clothing that makes you feel sexy, empowered, and embodied.

What should I wear I wear during Pet Play?

Some Dedicated pet player wear masks, animalistic costumes, and prosthetics as a part of their animal identity, and companies specializing in bondage wear are widespread. Costumes can range from Cat Ears, to animal Tail butt plugs, to leather masks and harnesses.

SUGGESTED ATTIRE

If you're a pet, get your sexiest or primal clothing ready.

If you are a Handler, Master, or Owner, dress in something that makes your feel powerful.

A REMINDER TO RELAX

We acknowledge the anxieties that come with an event of this nature, and let you know you are not alone in feeling them. We lovingly welcome you with whatever is up. There are no expectations, you get to choose your own adventure tonight. So take a deep breath, go do that happy-making thing that has you feeling centered and get ready to explore. Voyuerism IS participation.

What is Consent? (Language borrowed from Planned Parenthood)

Freely given. Consenting is a choice you make without pressure, manipulation, or under the influence of drugs or alcohol.

Reversible. Anyone can change their mind about what they feel like doing, anytime. Even if you’ve done it before, and even if you’re both naked in bed.

Informed. You can only consent to something if you have the full story. For example, if someone says they’ll use a condom and then they don’t, there isn’t full consent.

Enthusiastic. When it comes to sex, you should only do stuff you WANT to do, not things that you feel you’re expected to do.

Specific. Saying yes to one thing (like going to the bedroom to make out) doesn’t mean you’ve said yes to others (like having sex).

With this in mind, we expect everyone to show up in love and a willingness to help us cultivate a welcoming space for all.

*Any oppressive, discriminatory, or non-consensual behavior will NOT be tolerated.

WHO SHOULD ATTEND:

You are sensually and emotionally savvy enough to Play nicely with others. You're a good sharer, you take good care of your toys and you use your words. 🙂 You are somebody who knows your own wants and boundaries and can communicate them clearly...... and/or you're someone willing to work and explore these areas for your own growth and enjoyment! You treat yourself and others with respect and kindness.

If you're reading this, thinking, "I would love to come, but I don't want to play," PLEASE COME and enjoy the pressure-free company of like-minded individuals and exit whenever you wish. Really. There will be no pressure for you to do ANY activity at this party at any time.

My biggest request is that you come with a fun-loving, warm, caring, open-minded, generous, thoughtful, compassionate, non-judgmental attitude and that you conduct yourself with the highest level of integrity possible.

This will be a very chill, fun, playful event. Come relax. Come smooch. Come play. Come watch. Bring some popcorn.

All genders, bodies, and orientations welcome. Come as you are and have a great time!

we especially welcome trans, intersex, queer and other folks living anywhere within the spectrum - we recognise how heteronormative spaces can be and aim to challenge this through our conversations and actions.

TIME:

Doors open at 7:00 PM and CLOSE AT 7:45 PM. BE ON TIME as it is essential to have everyone present for the opening circle. There will not be anyone admitted after the doors are closed to preserve the safety of our space. The Welcome Circle is what we use to introduce ourselves to one another, craft meaningful conversations, share any boundaries and relationship agreements people should know about and get all comfy and ready to play. There will be a closing circle at midnight. PLEASE text Monique at 6196018852 if you're unavoidably running late, but please just be on time!

WHAT TO BRING: Whatever food and drink you might want for the evening. No drugs or alcohol please. We like our attendees to be present and capable of connection. Bring whatever clothing you'd like to don and lounge in while we frolic or just throw on your regular weekend clothes for relaxation. Bring along whatever toys or accessories you feel comfortable sharing with select individuals and whatever protection makes you feel safe, whatever you might be needing to create that perfect evening. Oh, and of course, please bring a Playful attitude and an open heart and mind.

Love Exchange is $99 for male identified, $69 for female identified or nonbinary or $150 for pairs

We have a few sliding scale and scholarship tickets for some savvy female identified folk, just contact Monique or Peter.

RSVP HERE:

Limit 40 tickets sold...

About your Facilitators:

Major is an intimacy coach/facilitator at Consciousplay.net, co-founder of Temple Of Hedonism, and Co-Producer of VirtualIntimacyRetreat.com.

Trained as an authentic relating facilitator, he utilizes Integral Theory to create exercises in different practices acting, movement, and intimacy. My innovation and penchant for levity creates a brave experiential container for people to blossom open, and deepen the relationship to self and others. Authentic Relating Games allow you to intimately know yourself and create a space for decentralized processing.

His intention is to show up authentically to create safety and permission for others to show up fully. My containers are for deep intimacy and growth. I believe when we locate and push against our edges, that is where the growth can happen.

Monique Darling, Author of 'Beyond Cuddle Party' and workshop facilitator extraordinaire, was born on this planet with the unique gifts and soul calling to help you remember how magnificent you truly are! Messages from your ancestors, your spirit guides, your body, nature, your soul, are all called upon and utilized so that you walk away knowing how deeply the cosmos loves you for YOU, exactly as you are, so you can begin to love and accept yourself too.

YOU, you are the gift!

Monique has led nearly 3000 workshops in the past 13 years. She has taught at colleges across the US including Yale. She has been featured on TLC and The Dr’s as well as various radio shows, podcasts and magazines across the globe. She specializes in helping others reclaim their power and natural sensuality by transmuting fear and repression into courage, self-love and freedom. Her primary purpose is helping folks bring out their vulnerability, energetic embodiment and fearless relating. Learn more about Monique by going to www.everydaytantra.com

Peter Petersen has been teaching qigong for 20 years and has been a certified massage therapist for the last 18 years. Peter has been teaching in health clubs, hospitals, retirement villas, and several different wellness/spa resorts in Mexico and the United States, such as Rancho La Puerta, Mayacamas Ranch, and Present Moment Retreat.

Peter is also a personal wellness coach. This Qigong practice helps people ground themselves into their “now” to increase their present moment awareness of their behaviors, and find simple solutions to problematic habits such as: eating, moving, negative thinking, and sleeping. The result of this tool box of healthy information is that clients become their own health advocate and regain a sense of stability, peace, and well-being into their everyday lives.